Kya ek ladka-ladki kabhi dost banke reh sakte hai…???

Hey all…I am back again…this time it's a lot sooner than expected huh…
Before you guys start to read this post, try and read the post prior to this..its connected in some ways…but before u get there, lemme add ki that ones pretty long. And for the ones who have read that and then reading this, am surprised ur giving me a 2^nd chance…well lemme try and not bore u ppl again thru this post also…

Well kinda free this weekend, so thought I would sit and do some work on the blog…which is why u see two posts on a day…now don't ask me whens the next one coming up, coz I honestly don't know…Before I start writing this post, lemme see what all I have been upto this past few days. Well nothing much to be precise, the week as usual passes with the regular work, which nothing much interesting is happening to pen about. Last evening went and saw Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi…don't even ask me how the movie was…I dunno if it was crap or not…but I know it wasn't great. The title of this post and the previous ones…I have got from this movie. Anywayz didn't expect too much from the movie, so wasn't disappointing…one can say. I kinda end up seeing every movie that's released…(oh yes that's one good about Chennai…any theatre, be it a multiplex or a single screen cant charge more than Rs 120/ticket)…so that's like an incentive to catch any movie…and the cheapest way to spend part of the weekend. Anywayz so that's what I did over the weekend.

Okay now getting back to this writing this post…what was the necessity to have this one after having written a boring one jus a few hours ago. Well the one prior to this…was about relationships and this one too continues to be abt relationships. Websters defines relationships as "A state of connectedness between people" And this necessarily does not mean that one has to be in love with another or be married or like kids say bf-gf to be in a relationship. There are many where u cant even define the connection. And there are some of these people in my life who I need to mention, esp when my last post was on relationships.

You tend to meet people almost on a daily basis, but there are some who live an inprint in your life. My parents have been my biggest pillars in life…already written about them, in the previous to previous posts. And then there are friends. I have never had someone like a best friend, till about 3 months back. Never knew what a best friend meant. But right from school, at every stage of life, I have ended up meeting people who have been a special part of my life. Not gonna write stories on anyone, just a quick short snippet of each of them. And I am sure people who knw me really well, wud knw that there wont be any mention of any male friends in this blog…haha…kya kare hum to aise hi hai J Actually no lemme mention 3…there are these 3 guys from school…how I hate them and how I adore them…been the thickest of my pals for a long time now…2 of them recently got married, which makes me wonder that I am next in line…SHIT..!! and the 3^rd one…salaam PPP…

School like I wrote in my previous post has been an amazing experience. Made some of my greatest friendships there…some got lost, some remain dormant, few keep in touch…and very few are still close. One such person is the subject here. Known her for about 12 years now…really long. I dunno when was the first time I met her, I guess it was at tuitions…I still rem the first time I saw her, she was in a black pullover. After school, I think we have just met once, but we have been in touch. She's been the only one from school that I have been in constant touch with. And the best part is, I am meeting her next week, at her marriage. Unfortunately even if I want, I just cannot skip it.

Then there's my Chotti. I jus love her…I was supposed to be her local guardian here in Chennai. I know I have totally irritated her. Now shes at the other end of the globe, so the irritations are quite less…and the only thing she has to ask me when we talk is.. "When are u finding me a bhabhi"… arre chotti ab mein kya karu if whoever I find…either it goes kaput, or like recently…they have a bf J

MBA…hmmm…some really good friends from here. Some pleasant memories, some really unpleasant memories. Okay I dunno how to write this…Ajit has a person can talk to anyone and everyone. There are few people he cant talk to…for some reason or the other. One such person is Miss. V (now Mrs btw)…this girl was so damn cute, I dunno how I missed talking to her in the first year of MBA. We jus never spoke. Then fortunately for me and unfortunately for her, we ended up doing our internship at the same place and even the same project. I guess God had written that she wud have to bear my nonsense. I just cant write about her, one of the most special people in life…who's been there when I have always wanted someone. Shes happily married to her bf of 5 years…and they both are jus so warm people. There is this one person I never spoke during my MBA and I have no clue as to why. But now that MBA is over…we kinda chat on a daily basis…Jus makes me think, how come I missed chatting up with her in college... Another one from MBA…and this chic is the first person I spoke to in college. We hit it off really well initially and then suddenly for some reason…we just stopped talking for 6 months…she gave me the most weirdest of reasons….made me buy it also. Calls me her entertainment…she jus hates me…and I jus love irritating her to worlds end…and I knw wen shes gonna read this…shes gonna hate me even more…that's the whole point. This is one total bindaas chic...shes now become my roomies new drinking partner whenever she lands up at Chennai. Final person I met during my MBA years…we have so fought with each other…we have done things together that I could have never imagined…its been a great ride with her…unfortunately I cant write more, as the fear of opening up a Pandora's box…seems very close…There is this one more person I have met during MBA…myself V and this girl did our internship together…me and her have had some serious wonderful laughs then…and we continue to…

At work…there are these 3 girls…who I absolutely adore…Two of them I adore so much that I hate them for creating my profile on shaadi.com and sending interest invites to one dozen girls…arrrrgh I cud kill them for it…all three of them are absolutely cute, fun to be with…and more so like my partners in crime in a lot of things…Ohhh how can i forgot this final girl from work...although we work from different locations...what do i say abt suppandi...shes jus adorable..!!

I know there are people that I have missed in the course of this post…its not on purpose…its jus that I don't wanna end up with an even bigger post…!!

Nope…I haven't forgotten u my best friend…can I ever. So much about you has already been written in my previous posts…that I just dunno what else to write. This is one girl who I know can give me competition in everything I do…but the best part is that both of us know competing against each other and winning wudnt be childs play. We are like two peas of the same pod..everything abt us is so damn similar…from the smallest of things…to the biggest. She can totally irritate me at times with regard to certain things, but she also knows that it doesn't take me too long to irritate her also. Someone who I look forward to meeting as often as possible and someone who I truly miss. Its been since 3 months since we have met…and we are jus thick pals. The other day someone had a comment on my blog asking how come one can become best friends in such a short span. I dunno if this is a movie dialogue or if I have read it somewhere…but the answer is "kabhi kabhi ek dusre ko samajne mein ek ghanta kaafi hai…and kabhi kabhi ek zindagi kam ho sakti hai"

Going back to the title of my blog…kya ek ladka aur ladki kabhi dost banke reh sakte ho…?? Kyun nahi…rehna chahiye toh reh sakta hai…but the blady problem lies in the "rehna chahiye toh"…now if you ask me that…I wud prolly reserve my comments…kya kare there has to be food for thought always…!! J